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Desiring out of fear & getting through fear blocks

Desiring out of fear 

If you want to create or manifest changes in your life to prove something to other people you may be working against your calling. There for it will be very hard to manifest, and if you do create it you will probably be disappointed. I have a friend who always choses to work in career fields that are technically challenging in order to prove to her parents and society at large that she is intelligent. Needless to say she never creates very much except entry-level jobs where she is greatly loved and her parents thinks she’s intelligent. But she of course isn’t satisfied and now has a hard time giving up something that took her so long to create. I call this the fear trap.

Her real calling is to be a massage/physical therapist. She has a natural ability towards massage and her hands are very healing. She often talks lovingly about becoming a message therapist. Co-workers often bribe her with lunch for one of her famous 15-minute shoulder and neck messages. Either the fear of not being technical or the fear of doing what she is good at keeps her trapped in these glass ceiling survival jobs.

The fear of destitution will always give you enough power where you can create a survival job. I personally have created chaotic survival jobs. I speak of no traps I personally haven't fallen into myself. If you have a survival job? Congratulations! Even if you're working in the wrong job at least your working so pat yourself on the back. Now you can create the perfect soulful job.

Before we move onto desiring and creating out of love lets continue looking at the benefits of creating out of fear. Fear can create an enormous amount of energy and focus. I have friends who work themselves into complete fear of losing their jobs if they don’t meet their sales goals. They always seem to meet the goal, but with great cost to their emotional and spiritual tranquility. Fear is definitely not only a motivator but a conqueror as well. The cost of fear of course is the price that one pays for living in fear. Usually anxiety and depression and a heightened state consciousness that borders on paranoia and schizophrenia.

Why do people continue to use fear. Well it gets results; it will get you to your goals. But this gets back to my original quote you can have all that you truly desire. If you have to use fear to motivate you, you will have to ask yourself, is what you desire true to you? Are they your goals or are you looking at your life and your goals from an outer perspective? If it’s what you truly desire and for your highest good then you will not have to resort to drama and chaos to achieve it.

Fear block

When I ask people what they truly want to do, and they don’t know. It usually has to do with something that would require them to move or drastically change careers. There is so much fear with such a transition they just block it out. Or it seems so impossible they won't even entertain it as a thought. Literally they can't get it up to the level of conscious thought. It gets locked down in the lower two chakras, the root and sacral.

Having open honest dialogs with themselves and others. Stretching exercise that release the hips and lower back can also help alleviate the block.

It's very hard (impossible) to have a rewarding happy life living outside of ones calling so it is important to release the block and move forward.

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